Savvy Grooms To-Do List!
| By Tara ~ February 4th, 2010 ~ Wedding Planning | Comments Off |
We’ve been dreaming about how our weddings will look since we were little girls. We’ve thought through every last detail and made subconscious decisions that remain in our minds as ‘final.’ Enter the groom. Unlike the man in our imagination, this one doesn’t have plastic hair or respond to the name, ‘Ken.’ He’s got thoughts, feedback, and surprisingly strong-willed opinions to things you never thought possible! Here are a few ways to help delegate responsibilities (yes, you really have to let go) and learn the art of teamwork:
The Honeymoon: Yes, he may care a great deal about the reception, but I’m betting he cares more about the honeymoon! Let him take the reigns and surprise you with a destination. It might be more fun not knowing where you are going until you get to the airport! Plus, do you really have time to plan a full-fledged vacation right now?
The Tuxedo/Menswear Selection: This may seem obvious, but many brides want to mingle in this area. Let him feel like a rock star on his big day as well. Chances are, he knows what his friends will feel most comfortable in, and he can manage getting all sizing and payment information, which is cumbersome and time-consuming.
Hotel Blocking: It’s straightforward (part of the reason it’s on this list). Hotel blocking isn’t subject to trends changing, artistic creativity, etc…it is what it is! Have him research some cool spots, reserve them, and get info together for your guests.
Marriage License: Give the groom some honor and let him take care of the most important thing on the table—actually legally getting married! Have him check local regulations and timelines to ensure you are set to go.
Transportation after the Ceremony and Reception: Anything automotive usually intrigues him- so let him take care of the ‘sweet ride’ you have after the ceremony and the reception!
Payment of the Officiant: He’ll have pockets on the big day- you won’t. Let him tuck the stipend away and pay the minister himself. Let him take care of it while he still enjoys paying for things for you!
