The Groom’s Speech – What Do I Say?
| By WeddingAces ~ July 8th, 2009 ~ Wedding Planning | 1 Comment |
source: intimateweddings.com
The groom’s speech is usually the second speech of the reception; it traditionally follows the father of the bride’s speech. Most grooms dread getting up in front of all their family and friends and saying something. However, this is a great opportunity to thank everyone for coming and give special recognition to those who deserve it.
That being said there are some key things that the groom need to know before he gets up to give his toast.
First off, short is sweet. You need to remember that there are a lot of toasts going on, so the toast really shouldn’t be more than 5 min. Secondly, there are some key people you need to thank you in your toast. First are the parents of both the bride and groom. Make sure you thank them separately, and thank them for raising you and your wife to the people you are today. Secondly you need to thank the groomsmen and the bridesmaids. Remember that they put a lot of time and energy into being a part of you wedding day. Thirdly is your best man and lastly, but most importantly, is your bride. These are the people you must include in your speech however you can add anyone else you would like to honor as well.
You definitely will want to add a little bit of humor but make sure that you keep everything appropriate for all of the guests who are attending. Some things you should try to stay clear of would be politics, religion, or anything about your wild night in Vegas!
Most importantly, keep your speech heartfelt, light and personal. Follow these tips and you are sure to have a successful speech on your wedding day!
Ken York
7/9/09
Good advice on the speech. Remember to practice your speech standing up and in front of a mirror, make eye contact with everyone, and avoid too much courage from a bottle.
Ken York
Author of The Men of the Wedding – The Final Week
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